Hi. Dang girl, you’re bangin. But also, you’re stronger than you think. Listen. Rape is rape, even if the rapist is someone you’re involved with. No means no. And it means no the second time and the third and so on. It is no one’s business how long it takes you to do your make up. Dragging on someone for how long they take to make themselves look good is just gaslighting 101. If you tell mutual friends that you dumped your significant other because he was gaslighting you and abusing you and they respond with disbelief and cruelty- THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS. If a male student will not leave you alone. If a former partner sneaks into your dorm room and refuses to leave tell the university. If he gets in trouble that is on him. He should. That is stalking and abusive. Also, that bestie you decided to take a chance on even though you never thought you were into him? He’s a keeper. Lock that shit down.